How Much Should You Spend on an Engagement Gift? A No-Stress Guide

Because love doesn’t come with a price tag… but gifts kind of do.

The question that quietly plagues even the most seasoned gift-givers: How much should you actually spend on an engagement gift?

Whether you’ve been invited to a luxe cocktail engagement soirée or a backyard BBQ with fairy lights and fairy bread, the gifting anxiety is real. But don’t stress — we’ve helped thousands of Aussies nail their engagement gifting game, and we’re here to take the pressure off.

Engagement celebration with personalised gift

The Short Answer? It Depends (But Here’s a Helpful Guide)

Engagement gifts aren’t like wedding gifts, where there’s often an unspoken rule to cover the cost of your plate. Engagement gifting is far more flexible — and personal.

Here’s a ballpark breakdown:

$30–$60: Workmates, neighbours, or casual friends
$60–$120: Close friends, cousins, bridal party members
$150+: Siblings, best mates, or if you’re feeling extra generous

The key takeaway? It’s not about how much you spend — it’s about how well you know the couple.

👉 Check out our Engagement Gifts collection for every budget and personality.

Stylish couple opening engagement gift box

What Influences Your Spend?

Still not sure where you land? These factors can help guide you:

Your relationship: The closer you are, the more you’re likely to spend
The celebration type: Intimate picnic or black-tie bash?
Your budget: Never feel pressured to spend outside your comfort zone

Looking for a broader etiquette breakdown? Here’s our Ultimate Guide to Engagement Gift Etiquette.

Celebration gift with candle, wine, and chocolates

Is it Ever Okay to Skip a Gift?

Look, we get it. Sometimes you’ve got three weddings this month, two engagements, and a mortgage. It’s okay to take a breather.

If you’re showing up in person, we always recommend bringing something small — even if it’s just a handwritten card and a bottle of bubbles. It’s a simple gesture that goes a long way.

👉 Need clarity? Read Do You Bring a Gift to an Engagement Party?

Gifting on a Budget That Still Feels Luxe

You don’t need a limitless credit card to give something memorable. Some of our favourite low-cost ideas include:

A bottle of wine with a custom label (funny, sweet, or romantic)
A duo of personalised glassware
A snacky, cheeky gift box full of treats they’ll love

Budget-friendly gift idea for engagement

Final Thoughts: It’s All About Thoughtfulness

At the end of the day, engagement gifting isn’t about what you spend — it’s about making the couple feel seen, celebrated, and excited for the road ahead.

Whether it’s a $30 candle and card or a $300 bottle of champagne, what matters most is that your gift is personal and heartfelt.

💌 Want full control? Build your own gift box with us and send a present that feels like you made it yourself (without the wrapping paper meltdown).